Don’t let the bastards get you down
We recently found out that another client of ours has been embezzled. Yes, I said "another." Employees stealing from practices unfortunately happens way too often. Though not rare, even just hearing about it is jarring. I find it sticks with me for days, like a black cloud reminding me that people can be awful. Of course, the effect it has on us is trivial compared to the impact it has on the actual victims of this terrible abuse of trust. The point of this post is not to advise you on how to reduce your risk of embezzlement. (We can do that, so contact us if you want to learn more, or start with our short quiz on the subject. But this post is about the emotional impact of having been robbed and deceived by someone you trusted.) If you've discovered that someone you relied on stole from you, here are some things I would like you to know. It's not you, it's them.Becoming a victim of embezzlement has nothing to do with your intelligence. Read that again: being a victim of embezzlement has nothing to do with your intelligence. Too often, victims of embezzlement feel ashamed that it happened to them. But though embezzlers are often clever, the difference between you and them is more about worldview than intellect. In some cases, people who were once honest find ways to rationalize their first theft while working for you. In other cases, embezzlers are repeat offenders who treat their crime as a trade, moving from employer to employer to ply it. Either way, it's clear embezzlers have a completely different sense of what is right and wrong than you do. In all likelihood, you didn't suspect them because you'd never consider doing something like this yourself. It's wrong to blame the victim of any crime, even when the victim is yourself. The only person to blame is the perpetrator. But you can put your intelligence to work for you by learning how to avoid a recurrence. You'll need to look at the world in a different way, so that you